Before we start to hate another person without particular reason, we should think first, if we would like if someone would hate us. How would we feel if someone will start to hate our children at school, bully them, until the words turns in to physical action, if we would like if someone would start to hate your husband on your wife, talk badly to them or even bit them up, just because of hate and jealousy?

In 21 century, i think we have to much negativity and hate with jealousy are playing big part in our life, we talk about kindness, goodness, forgives, but we don’t practise it in our life, maybe someone hate your father or your mother. Yes is possible and it is really happening, how many kids gets bully in school and bitten. Where hate comes from? i think from environment, family and other people who surround us AND FROM US AS WELL.

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25 réponses sur « About hate »

  1. Hi Ilona! Sometimes rushing to read a post ends up funny. 😂 I read your post title as « about ate » i was so eager to read such a weird title then to realize it is « About Hate » 😂😂. Hate is nothing but a negative emotion. It is a emotion that is temporary, but people mind recalls a particular mistake over and over and makes it an eternal hate. It’s a baseless one. We must talk back our hate to someone and get it clarified. And it is better to be hated when something is trying to make us that we are not. Society makes hate for baseless reasons. Let’s erase it and replace it with Love✨😉 Have a great day ilona✨🤗

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    1. Listen, i even did this kind of mistakes in my title before:D
      Yes is very powerful emotion, who can destroy the real you:)
      I like the way you look at it. People get hurt because of jealousy and hate, love is the answer to all the question, well almost:D

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  2. Unfortunately I think there are a lot of people concentrated on hate, jealousy or envy and everything starts from the fact that people are never happy with what they have…they always look at the others and start comparing…
    I guess if everyone should be focused on their life and on their goals, hate would not exist! What I know is that we need to stay away from such people! 🙂
    Have a wonderful and happy day Ilona!

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  3. I was bullied until I graduated high school. Since then, It has taught me to never hate anyone or talk bad about them. I hated it when it happened to me. It caused me to develop depression and social anxiety and more

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    1. People can be so mean and rude, but i think, because they have some complexes and problems in their own life, people, who are hurting others on purpose are not happy with their own life, they jealous when others are happy, so they feel like the best they can do, to put their pain on others, by hurting them💙💛🧡💜

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  4. Is your point of view, maybe they saw you from different perspective. I dont like my body type, i feel complex, but some of my friends
    thinks, that it looks good😂
    How do you feel today? It left a scar in inside you or you got over it?

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  5. emotions such as hate and love are learned. i feel humans « hate » because of jealousy, fear, and ignorance. in today’s world, many people hate Muslims based on media reports of a very small group of extremists and also based on lack of knowledge of the religion. years ago people also « hated » japanese, germans, and russians. people also « hate » people of different skin color. in the history of the usa, americans « hated » irish and chinese. i guess it is just in humans to hate others and usually it is because they are different from us.

    but in reality, everyone is more alike than different. we all have dreams of what we want to do and become. we eat, sleep and work. we have children and pets. we grow plants, take walks and put on our pants one leg at a time. but too many want things the easy way and take things that others have rather than work for them.

    i dont feel people are born with « hate » inside them. i feel we are born with caring and love inside and because of some sort of weird cross « wiring » in our brains, we start to hate. humans dont want to be seen as different, so many will just follow the pack and it takes courage to say hate is wrong.

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    1. You are right, media can be really toxic, we can’t say like all muslims are bad or all jewish are good, each person is different, in every nation and religion are good and bad people, i dont understand when people are saying that all russian is alcoholics, which is wrong again. Humans have this bad habit to generalise to much when it come to negativity and its a bit sad. After we can’t put all on media, we all have different story and some people create some hate or anger due to event in there life who could change the person they was, thats why we always have to work on ourself with meditation and others, think who we really are and try to never get lost in dark thought.

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  6. Hate is a terrible thing that can hurt people for a lifetime. People hate others because of being different, one group thinks they are better than another group, so they hate. Those people are a different color, so they hate. We are all human, we are the same, all people, no differences really. Might be some culture difference or religion difference, but that’s no reason to hate anyone. People are often jealous which leads to hate of others. I know someone who hates another person because she talks too much, and the other person said the same thing! And it is a very deep hatred over something that is nothing.
    Most hatred is based on nothing that is important, it is just senseless. But it can really hurt people, on both sides. We need to be careful ourselves, because hate can move in so easily, especially if someone hates us, then we want to turn around and hate them. Forget them, if they want to hate, it’s their problem. We need to show love to people, get along with other people.
    Good thoughts Ilona, great post! I hope your day has been good!😁😸🌞

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    1. Yes Steve, negative emotions are toxic, not always easy to stay away from it, but it worth to try.
      I never understood, when people are in groups, all groups should be open for everyone to enter, should be no groups after all.
      Love is the biggest power and my favourite topic to talk about💜
      Don’t need to make problems from nothing, people making problems where is no problem😁
      Need to learn to love on, the worst is to stay stocked in the situation or negative emotion, keep moving is important☀️

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      1. I agree, there should be no groups, but everyone seems to be so suspicious of people who don’t belong to their group. People need to stop being suspicious too. That always produces hate.
        Love is the best thing for sure, we need to love and spread love everywhere.
        We need to get out of those negative emotions for sure.
        Have a wonderful day Ilona!!😁😸🌞🌧

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  7. You are right but there are many who just cultivate and encourage these negative emotions. We should just let it go. We can’t do much right! Hate and jealousy will just burn us .. and we can’t afford that. Amazing post Ilona, as always. Keep spreading positivity ❤️

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  8. You’re so right. Hate and jealousy is rampant all over the world with all types and ages of people. This reminds me of James 3:16 which says, “For wherever there are jealousy and contentiousness, there will also be disorder and every vile thing.” We see this to be true. But it’s important for us to “clothe ourselves with love” (Colossians 3:14) because that’s what will help us overcome the hate.

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